Books
Three volumes in which awareness education, dialogue and personal development condense as reading.
The Event Dialogue
It began with an observation that became impossible to ignore: people rarely change through better arguments. They change through moments — a sentence that stays, a silence that says everything, a look that reveals more than a thousand explanations. The Event Dialogue is the attempt to capture this observation scientifically and make it practically usable.
The book connects three traditions rarely thought together: Alfred North Whitehead's process philosophy, for whom reality consists not of things but of events; modern neuroscience around Jeffrey Zacks, which shows that our brain actually segments experience into events rather than flowing time; and therapeutic practice, which has long known that the decisive turning point is rarely what gets explained to us, but what we live through.
From this connection emerged the Event Dialogue as a six-step method — not another communication model among many, but an attempt to change the question itself. No longer "Why did you behave that way?" but "What event produced this experience — and what meaning shows itself in it?"
This book is the theoretical and methodological foundation on which the other two volumes build.
The Power of the Event
Any theory left in a drawer loses its force. The workbook on the Power of the Event grew out of a very practical experience: seminar participants understood the Event Dialogue intellectually — and still struggled to apply it in real conversations. Between knowing and doing lies a gap that no chapter, however clever, closes on its own.
This is why the second volume isn't another book about event-thinking, but the translation of the method into daily life. Where the Event Dialogue provides the map, the Power of the Event provides the walking shoes: concrete exercises, reflection prompts, templates for your own notes. The title is meant literally — it isn't the theory about events that generates power, but the consciously lived event itself.
Anyone who has read the Event Dialogue and asks "So how do I actually do this?" finds the answer here. It is deliberately leaner — 200 pages instead of 340 — because its purpose is to accompany, not to explain.
Money-Therapy®
The third volume leaves the abstract field of communication theory and applies event-thinking to something most people consider purely rational: how we handle money. A misconception, as it turns out.
Here too, it isn't the number on the bank statement that changes our behavior, but the event that once shaped our relationship with money — a remark from a parent, a moment of shame, a loss that left a lasting mark. Money-Therapy® carries the method of the first two volumes into this highly emotional territory, combining it with behavioral economics (Kahneman), neuroscience, and therapeutic practice.
This closes a circle: the Event Dialogue supplies the theory, the Power of the Event the practice of the method itself, and Money-Therapy® shows how the same way of thinking applies to a concrete area of life that touches almost everyone. Three volumes, one idea: we are changed not by what is explained to us, but by what we live through as an event.